I just received an e-mail from a new convert who was concerned because some of her new Catholic friends have told her that she should go to the Tridentine Mass or her children will never grow up to love the Church and the liturgy. They said the Novus Ordo Mass (which we celebrate in the vast majority of Catholic churches) is detrimental and inadequate.
(A Note: The Tridentine Mass is beautiful and legitimate and is allowed to be celebrated in most places. It is not banned or shunned. It is a Mass that many love and enjoy. It is not attending a Tridentine Mass that is the problem. I see the problem in an attitude and a rebellion and a pride in many who drift in this direction.)
I told the woman that she could trust the Church. There are always those that look back to the mythical "glory days" of the past. Even the first century, during the life of the Apostles were no "glory days" — just read the letters to the Corinthians to see that!
Here is what I wrote her in brief: "Watch the radical Traditionalists — two things characterizes most of them. First, they are angry and bitter and have lost their joy; and second, it is all they can talk about. They have forgotten how to smile, how to talk about evangelism, the Scriptures, the family, the joyful things they should be discovering in their daily walk with Jesus, etc.
"They seem to have become trapped in a dark corner of complaining and griping about about liturgy and the hierarchy. Many have a tendency to drift further — even to the point of rejecting Vatican II and our current pope. In fact, for them, there has been no pope since Vatican II. They try to recruit others to join them in their gloom and cynicism.
(Picture above: Vatican II assembled; it was a legitimate and powerful council for which the Church can be grateful. The popes since this council have been marvelous men of God and proof of Jesus' promise to Peter and the Church.)