Family and Kids

My Daughter Found A Baby

by Steve Ray on October 20, 2016

My wonderful daughter Charlotte writes:

Screen Shot 2016-10-03 at 4.07.12 PMBABY SORRILL HAS BEEN FOUND!!!!! 

With great excitement  we announce – we are matched! Our baby boy is due January 16th! We can’t believe how fast this happened! God’s hand was truly in every detail and we are so very thankful and over the moon excited! We met the birth mother today and here is the first picture of our baby boy that will go in his photo album.

Lots more details in my blog at

We still have a lot of money to raise in order to make this adoption happen and we need your help! We have a donation puzzle (see below). There are only 41 puzzle pieces left to be sponsored in our puzzle fundraiser!

Screen Shot 2016-10-03 at 4.21.06 PMIf you would like to help and be apart of our journey to bring our baby home we would love to write your name on our puzzle! $25 sponsors one piece. When the puzzle is complete we will hang it in our babies nursery!

To be apart of this fundraiser, all you have to do is donate through our YouCaring site Or if you want our mailing address email me at

STEVE RAY HERE: I am asking my friends and readers to help my daughter financially, even if it is a just a little bit. I never ask a penny for myself, but I am asking friends to help my daughter in this very worthy, pro-life, pro-family decision she and Wes have made.

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Proud of My Quiet Wife Doing Evangelism

by Steve Ray on August 25, 2016

Janet is usually quiet and reserved but today she surprised me. We went to Jimmy John’s to get sub sandwiches for our grandkids. On the sidewalk was sitting a young black man asking for money. I walked into the store but she turned around and went back to talk with him.

She said, “I won’t give you money but if you’d like a sandwich and a drink I’ll buy you one.” I was looking for her inside the store but didn’t see her so I went back out to see where she went. That’s when I got this picture.

imageShe stepped into the shop, bought the sandwich and Coke and took it back out and gave it to him. She said, “I hope you enjoy the sandwich and I want you to know I did this because I’m a Catholic and we like to help people in the name of Jesus.”

He pointed to St. John the Baptist Catholic Church two blocks away. He said, “Do you go to that church?” Janet said, “We do.”

He said, “I go there on Thursdays for their free food.” Janet responded, “Well that’s great; maybe you can start coming on Sunday mornings too!”

Yeah, I was proud of her. And if she can do it so can everybody else reading this :-) It is a good idea that when you do something nice for someone you let them know why by saying something like, “I’m a Catholic and we Christians like to do these kind of things.”


Hints for the Grandkids: 1) We were on a plane, 2) heading home, 3) on the other side of the world, 4) in picture 6 look through the haze of sand for a hint – tallest building in the world.

Pray for us on the rest of our journey. Pray that our humble efforts in India will have a lasting impact for the Kingdom of God and the Catholic Church.

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Want to something nice & Prolife today? Purchase a puzzle piece on my daughter’s Adoption Puzzle, help her find her baby. Visit her website, read her story and buy a puzzle piece HERE. When you “donate” on the right side of the page it purchases a puzzle piece.

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